I don't know it is the mistake of whom ?

I would like to share an incident that occurred with me on 19
September, 2013 @6:53 pm.
There is a girl in my life that I loved more than I could do but a
storm in my life made me such that I have to change my heart like
stone ...
Once She was going to Agra because her family had planned to tour &
they were coming to receive her on Agra. She just explained it to me
along with that she had never traveled on that path alone. So I
decided I would go with her. Hearing this entire one of her close
friend keep stop talking to her just ignored her. Because they
understood that we were committed without getting them know. They just
didn't want her commitment blah blah etc. even today I really didn't get
exact reason. So she started to talk me rudely still I went with her
just to drop her safely & when she came back to college I went to pick
her. She had got diverted more than before & on d same day in evening
when I convincing her. She called her dad & told few bad things about
me. A call @ 6:53 pm on 19 September 2013 her dad on another side I
picked up call.
I said without listening any response from other side, “Hello Uncle Namaste"
He said, “You know who I am?"
I replied, “yes you are *****'s dad.”
He again said," From today there will be no call or message of yours on
her cellphone. "
I convinced," ok uncle but I am not such type guy as you are assuming."
He threaten, “I know about the engineering guys they are very over
reacting. You know I am retired army person I'll come to your hostel
with 100 army men & will beat you endlessly.”

After hearing this I became angry but calmed myself because He is someone’s father how I could raise my voice in front of him.

I replied very peacefully,” ok uncle there’ll be no call but I has few books of her (actually those weren't books those were sweets which she took from her trip) how can I return those?”

He ordered, “In the front of your college give all the stuff to guard & tell him to talk me.”

I replied,” Ok Uncle Namaste.”

Call was disconnected before my last statement made full sentence.

I cried a lot on that day, I had never done any kind of work so that one’s dad cursed me like that. I became gullible person. I cut my veins two to three times.

After few hours I called up her friend & my batch mate to tell her thank you for all that.

Next day I took all the stuff that was related to her. I collect all even the poly bag & gave to guard following the statement of her father.

I got depressed, frustrated, and stressful. I started to dream that how I could manage myself in the class room because every single moment when I looked at her the whole scene comes over my mind. The one thing that hurt me most is- Am I beat around 2 lakhs students to hear that anyone has come & beat me while there is no mistake of mine? This thing hurt my self-respect not my ego, ego is another thing I thinks it is an attitude that shows why you are different from others while self-respect is a kind of value to yourself which keeps you positive always with your moral values.

Suffering from this mental pain finally I told everything to my father along with all the rumors created by dumb peoples & his reply was awesome I am proud of my father. He expounded,” It is very good that you talked her father very gently because if he is hers father then it means he is like your father and if he is showing the power of his post to terrify you then why don’t you do such kind of work that he come and pats your back.”

My mind always yells me to take revenge but my father explained me the real meaning of revenge without bothering anybody move ahead & go on. This makes me stronger than before.